Showing posts with label doing it. Show all posts
Showing posts with label doing it. Show all posts

Saturday, March 19, 2011

zombies live on saturday mornings

like what Thye Chuan said, 'Everyday is a learning experience'.

something happened on Friday, it was like i experienced an epiphany of sort. unlike a certain Alexandra Wallace, my epiphany wasn't interrupted.

it was an experience that i suddenly realise that 'hey, i can actually do this!'


right, i know. this post makes no sense whatsoever. thanks for reading, it's one of those brainless saturday morning posts.

Wednesday, March 16, 2011

it's simple, you just gotta open your eyes and keep 'em open!

I don't know how to start or where to start, public blogging has somehow feel weird for me. the self-consciousness, the knowledge that everyone and anyone could be reading what i write. it's overwhelming. and i haven't been updating this blog for a while as compared to the other one i have. and so it begins.. again.

i've became self-conscious of the people around me, the kind of people i mix with, the drive in people, the passion, the determination/goals (or the lack of), the habit, the views, the vision (again, or the lack of..) and the purpose in people. it's sometimes amazing, other times disappointing but always entertaining to watch, observe.

and do you notice how successful people always get up early? they start their days way earlier than normal people do? i'm trying to emulate the bits and pieces, habits or whatnot of seemingly successful people.. taken from Outliers, there must be some common grounds on how successful people behave, no? -this might be flawed, i have yet to finish Outliers-

and i guess i'll start my journey to success by starting my days earlier, than normal!

share with me, what other noticeable traits of successful people huh?


-apologies this post seem to not flow, like i said, i havent blogged for public consumption in a while now, it'll get better over time, i hope.

-this post is also influenced by Story of a New Habit: How I Started to Wake Up at 5am.

Saturday, February 12, 2011

somemore dough, anyone?

in today's world, when i come across a person who is money-conscious and advocates debt-free lifestyle, it's an immediate plus point.

too many people earn too little and spend too much. contingency plan much?

Sunday, January 23, 2011

try as i may, i can never break free from the dark side. have been trying to tweak the look and feel of this site for the past one hour. still the same ol' red, dark and mysterious feel.


i envy people who maintain commercial blogs.

Sunday, January 2, 2011

hug me tight


what's up with hugs?

hugs are good. hugs are intimate. hugs bring people closer. it brings people together. hugs momentarily cut off the distance, the space, the nothingness. hugs attract, they string people together. and they are free!

so i was quite taken aback when people showed hints of surprise when given a hug.


but why? o.O

Monday, November 22, 2010

Saturday, November 20, 2010

the business of pleasure

ever thought of asking for payment after sex? or maybe negotiate on the payment before sex? no, i'm not citing a transaction between a whore and a customer. not the typical business transaction between two individuals engaging in the business of pleasure. what i'm saying is merely a suggestion on how to inject spice into your sex lives.

give it a thought. play the role of a dirty whore, when you know 'somehow' you're being paid for your service, you'll assume the role of the temptress, the sex goddess (perhaps you could 'charge' RM10,000 per night) and deliver the kind of 'service' a high class escort of RM10,000/night will deliver. the control, the confidence, the power over the man paying you.. the eagerness. of course, it's a make-believe confidence and make-believe role-play. but, if you allow yourself to let loose and immerse fully into the role that you are playing, you'll be in for surprises.. minx aren't born, they are made.

it's not hard to spice up mundane sex lives, really. just takes a little bit of imagination, a little enthusiasm, a little adventure and a very hungry mind.

Wednesday, October 13, 2010

smell the coffee yet?

By Stanley Koh

COMMENT
It turns out that the government you voted in will not hold your hand to see you through hard times. Instead, it will make sure to add to your suffering because that is the easiest way it can avoid going bankrupt.
Barisan Nasional has apparently decided that the time has come to remove or cut subsidies — the kind of subsidies that poor people depend on, not the kind enjoyed by big corporations and monopolistic suppliers of utilities and infrastructural support.So what is the use of a government that will eagerly shake your hand during election time but will not hesitate to pull the rug from under your feet when it needs to save itself?Few believe that the removal of subsidies on essential food items and fuels can save the Malaysian government from possible bankruptcy. If it does go bankrupt, it will be because it has failed to cleanse a corrupt system.
It is better for Malaysians to be rich and to control a bankrupt government than to be poor and controlled by a corrupt government. Many countries have rich citizens with bankrupt governments.
You do not need an economist to tell you that RM100 in Malaysia today does not buy as much as it did last year.
In what we may call the Malaysian Misery Index, we can see that food prices have been spiralling upwards for years. For example, fresh tenggiri, which was RM13.23 a kilo in 1997, now costs RM40 a kilo. A roasted duck cost RM13.47 in 1997, but is now at least RM38. And Malaysians have become used to the doubling in price of some food items during festive seasons.
Most Malaysians do not expect the situation to improve. Food prices will continue to go up and there is little hope that they will come down again.
Two years ago, the BN government announced that it had set up a US$1.25 billion fund to increase food production and that it was targeting 100% self-sufficiency in rice consumption. What has happened to the fund and the target?Nevertheless, the escalation in food prices is only one of the financial worries of most Malaysians. Other worries include the general cost of living, salary changes and debts.

Double whammy
When the GST (goods and services tax) is fully implemented in 2011, it will be a double whammy for poor and middle-income households, pensioners, the unemployed and single parents.
Some have argued that imposing GST on Malaysian does not make much economic sense when only 6.8% of the population are taxpayers and a large majority earn low incomes. Furthermore, it is acknowledged that most of us are paying hidden taxes in highway tolls and electricity tariffs.
Indeed, the future looks bleak.Yet, quite a number of us are gullible enough to think that the government will protect consumers. Are we not being stupid? Isn't it better to be wiser and brace for tougher times ahead?
Instead of believing the promises of a government that has a dismal performance record, we should believe the law of inflation, which says, “Whatever goes up will go up some more.”
Ronald Reagan once described inflation as a violent mugger, a threatening armed robber and a deadly hit man. In the Malaysian context, that is an apt description not of inflation, but of the BN government’s behaviour and policies.
Unlike grey hair or extra pounds, inflation, Malaysian-style, does not sneak in gradually. One of the outstanding characteristic of our government is that it can cause inflation to explode overnight, such as when an official makes a snappy and stupid policy decision on pricing.
So how do we fight the inflation of food prices?
Economists generally agree that the average Malaysian household spends about 75% of its income on food. Food price hikes will therefore have an adverse impact upon disposable income and force us to make a lifestyle change.

To fight inflation
Here are some of the things we can do:
· Stop eating at expensive restaurants.
· Boycott traders, hypermarkets and hawker stalls that charge unreasonable prices.
· Shop intelligently for value and do not be too impressed by branding.
· Work out a budget before buying. Look out for special sales.
· Prevent wastage by not buying more than you can eat.
· Tell friends and acquaintances about shops that charge excessively.
· Avoid buying expensive beverages or foodstuff and find alternatives for nutritional value.
· Boycott chained markets and fast-food joints. They are monopolised by a few large companies and can therefore raise prices at whim.

When inflation reached a six-year high at the end of 2005, even the price of the humble bean sprout went up by 10 sen a kilo. Reason: A gunnysack of beans went up from RM75 to RM135.
Today, even death is becoming exorbitant. The cost of cremation is expected to rise soon from RM100 to anything between RM200 and RM300.Perhaps economist Milton Friedman was right when he said, “If you put the federal government in charge of the Sahara desert, in five years there will be a shortage of sand.”
Malaysians do not take the official Consumer Price Index (CPI) seriously. They know it does not accurately reflect price rises in essential foodstuffs.
Many suspect that the government uses it as an instrument to deceive the public into thinking that things are hunky-dory when they are not. The government develops statistics so that the inflation-weary public would direct its hostility towards businesses, and not blame official mismanagement.The average household consumption expenditure over the last 20 years has increased by 181.8%. In 1973, it was RM412. By 1993-94, it had gone up to RM1,161. In 1999, it touched RM1,631.
According to Prof Lim Teck Ghee, real household income has been growing, but at the snail-pace rate of 0.9% per year. More than half of the population are in the low-income category. Today, a family of five spends 50% to 60% of household income on food compared with 20% in 1998 and 15% in 1988. Not long ago, there was official acknowledgement that 95% of families are finding it hard to cope with the rise in food prices.
In fact, the biggest failure of the Ninth Malaysia Plan is that it did not help Malaysians improve their quality of living. Inflation, whether it is imported or locally generated, raises the cost of living and lowers the quality of living.
When five out of 10 Malaysians are prone to mental problems and other disorders due to the pressures involved in trying to support their families, it is time for the government to wake up.

'Why not change the government?'
In 2006, when Najib Tun Razak was Deputy Prime Minister, he asked Malaysians to change their lifestyle in the face of the rising cost of living. A blogger by the name of Chong wrote in response: “Perhaps, the prime minister should have done some simple calculations himself. People like us basically have no lifestyle, just merely surviving with our earnings. So how are we going to change (our lifestyle)? “Inflation has gone up 4.5% (and above) and the government is pushing the cost of living higher by increasing electricity tariffs, but our income remains the same.”
Others felt it would be easier to change the government than to change a non-existent lifestyle.
“Instead of listening to Najib asking us to change,” one critic remarked, “why not we change the government at the next general election?”
To me, that makes a lot of sense. Any government that is willing to build air-conditioned toilets around a city at more than RM100,000 each has no business planning a national economy.
When such a government decides to cut subsidies, many of us will wonder whether the so-called “savings” will instead go towards more majestic arches, fanciful lampposts, refurbishments of VIP residences, luxurious government bungalows and fruitless overseas trips by ministers.
Any government that stands accused of having wasted RM320 billion in 20 years — through corruption, wastage and mismanagement — definitely does not deserve to be re-elected.



This article was written by the head of research unit at MCA, for once i was happy,to see such writing with facts which most malaysian were blinded from, although it seems so far from a change. Me personally since I got back were sick of this 1Malaysia campaign. Having travel the world this campaign is to me no other than a new form of propaganda all over again.
Ed


food for thought people. have you registered as a voter? -karen

Monday, October 11, 2010

Thursday, September 30, 2010

young 'uns

do you take an active role in shaping the future generation?

do you see a teen, shake your head left and right before walking away, or will you actually approach, take up the responsibility of taking him/her under your guidance?



i try to care more, but sometimes i feel that it is redundant.

Tuesday, September 21, 2010

have you given your best in the things you do?

if only everyone choose what they do carefully, then do what they choose passionately, work towards being the best in what they do tirelessly, we could be an advanced nation in no time.


too many people let chance happen, let fate decides, let nature rules and let the inner voice stay shut.

too many people follow

Wednesday, August 4, 2010

spur of a moment

my phone has camera function.

my phone has 'send picture to blog' button.

i toyed and created a mobile blog via my phone.

at that very moment..

was at the gym, the pool looks so inviting. like it's calling to engulf me in it. and i so wanted to be taken by it.


mobile blog will be active. i will snap and blog whenever and wherever.


i hope you like it

Monday, July 19, 2010

still lingering on NZ

if only i have a chance to redo my NZ days, there will definitely be no boundaries.

i regret this part, much

Monday, June 21, 2010

New Zealand


i remember vividly the phone call that i got from my brother, that one fine evening, last last year when i was in New Zealand. he called right after he spotted the picture i posted on facebook. my 21st bday, visit to the whorehouse strip club, lipstick stains on my boob and all. he was quite shocked and he thought someone else updated those pictures of mine. i still remember my reaction to his surprise, i was defensive. i was quite irked at being called up at random and questioned about what pictures i took and what i posted on facebook. i guess i must have sounded a lil too defensive when he retreated, no more questioning.

ahhh... New Zealand, the freedom, the lack of care. the love i got across continents. :)

Monday, May 17, 2010

in the real world, shoes are not tailor-made

i am the architect of my own life blocks, the writer of my own success story. the maker of the ink, the guide of the pen. i am the narrator, the lead actress, both the subject and the object. i am the very whole story. it's just chapter 1.

Sunday, March 21, 2010

liberalisation

now porn is an interesting topic of discussion.. from the storyline to the people starring in the porno, to the positions and length, the expressions and the best sites.

but, what do you think about girls who are not comfortable with their boyfriend/spouse/partner watching porno? i know some even go to extend of implementing strict 'no porno' campaign in their relationship.

what say you? possibility of insecurity? possessiveness?

and to the guys, how do you go around bending the 'rule'?

anonymous comments are most welcomed, for obvious reasons. personal experience will be good to share as well..

my personal opinion : porno is more enjoyable when watched together. as the saying goes "Show me a smoking hot beautiful woman and I'll show you a guy who is tired of fucking her." Goes to show no matter how hot the girlfriend is, the boyfriend will still get bored. it is only human. not much damage/harm, of course until he turns into a porn addict.

Sunday, March 14, 2010


the walls in my room, you have no idea....

dont hate me just cause you aint me

in reference to guys who talks about sex much
boys: it is perfectly normal, it's implanted in our heads, 24/7
girls: he's weird and creepy and looks like he has just masturbated for the 7th time. let's stay away from him

in reference to girls who talks about sex, ahem.. more than usual
boys: geeee girl, you're so cool. your reference to sex is way cooler than my sex-addict friend, Dick here!
girl 1: she is a slut.
girl 2: she is rude, too unladylike. how can she say such a thing.
girl 3: she's a disgrace to womankind.
girl 4: Dick!!! you have got to stop keeping in touch with her, this instance!

so, you see.. it's not easy being me.

it's easier to get away being open-minded with the opposite sex, if you are a girl.