young 'uns

do you take an active role in shaping the future generation?

do you see a teen, shake your head left and right before walking away, or will you actually approach, take up the responsibility of taking him/her under your guidance?

i try to care more, but sometimes i feel that it is redundant.

it's starting to eat me up, inside.

have you given your best in the things you do?

if only everyone choose what they do carefully, then do what they choose passionately, work towards being the best in what they do tirelessly, we could be an advanced nation in no time.

too many people let chance happen, let fate decides, let nature rules and let the inner voice stay shut.

too many people follow

purposely accidental

i didnt do it on purpose.

but i accidentally recapped my life and hey.... i have always been the yellow one.



*gulp*


some things just dont change

but then again..

some people might be quick to come out with remarks like 'hey look at him/her, he/she has got everything and he/she still complains. such ungrateful bastard/bitch.'

it's way too common isn't it.

but then again, if you have walked in that person's shoes and has taken every single step in that person's life and went through every single event that leads to that moment of frustration (whatever it may be) and you can still lash out to deem that person ungrateful, then yes, you are entitled for that comment. but if you have not, don't you think you're a little too quick to judge? just cause things look good on others and your life stinks right now doesn't automatically grant you permission to be judgmental.

jus' sayin'. people need to be reminded, often.

we thought we know

the subconscious vice : we always want to be the other person across the street, without realising that he who stands there longs for the exact same thing; to be us over here, on this side of the walkway.

only cause the dying flowers and harsh insects look like rainbow of petals and butterflies from afar

human nature

Human Nature : we only appreciate what we lost.

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the only constant is change

Dear Karen,

Remember, you are but a tiny spec in the whole wide world. When part of your world dies, the humongous rest of the world goes on. Nothing stops. The very few who mourns with you feel you, understand you and see you. While another number tries to sympathize and support, they cannot fully understand how it must have felt like.

This is not an excuse. Make this a reason to be stronger. Noone needs to back down/give way just cause you mourn your loss at your own expense.

My conscience is telling me 'i told you so'.


Everyone grieves differently. You have better grieve in silence for the tears at night cannot justify the amount of guilt you should be feeling. RIP dad.